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Menakem explores themes of race and racialized trauma, transgenerational trauma, and how these are passed down and held in our bodies. The author includes plenty of somatic activities within this book that the reader can try on their own, making it quite interactive. I highly recommend this as an alternative to The Body Keeps the Score. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/640a6cc0bd734a6656d16751/506d26f7-13c9-4635-9224-6789ce3d3179/91gIkxysgmL._SL1500_.jpg Blog - Recommended Reading - The title pretty much says it all and it seems this book has actually become more relevant since it was first published. The author tackles how the influence of the DSM-5, “Big Pharma”, and the medical industry have led to the explosion of diagnoses to label nearly every aspect of the human experience. Social media has certainly made this even more pressing, as many people are being exposed to misinformation around diagnosis. 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So many marginalized people struggle with anger as an emotion, which can end up being turned inward and morphing into depression and anxiety. This book, which is structured as a series of essays, illustrates how suppressing our anger can lead to both internal difficulties as well as maintain systems of oppression in our society. If anger is a difficult emotion for you, or you find yourself bursting into tears anytime you feel angry, I can’t recommend this book enough. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/640a6cc0bd734a6656d16751/0448bba9-a29a-46e2-9bd3-629f2f2c75a6/61W6wb7pRLL._SL1360_.jpg Blog - Recommended Reading - A great book for anyone in a romantic relationship or who wants to be in a romantic relationship. This explores the realities of modern relationships and the constant struggle between freedom versus security, anxiety versus boredom, and passion versus stability. Esther Perel also has several TED talks which are great introductions to her work. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/640a6cc0bd734a6656d16751/239aabee-d17d-4076-a9d3-4a382c3f4f9b/71Xao%2BAD1IL._SL1500_.jpg Blog - Recommended Reading - If you are looking for a workbook and activities to do on your own, this one is fantastic. While geared towards individuals with complex PTSD, I personally think the activities in this book are relevant for nearly everyone. 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